The love you want isn’t waiting on the right man. It’s waiting on the softened woman who calls him in.
The membership for the growth-oriented woman ready to soften into the love, pleasure, and committed partnership she’s been reaching for, and to feel it in her body, not only understand it.
An activation opens you. The practice is what roots it.
This is the container that keeps you in the state long after the live experience ends, so the softening becomes who you are.
Who this is for
The woman who’s done the work and now wants the result she can feel: desire, chemistry, a love that’s alive.
The woman ready to become so magnetic the right love is drawn to her.
The woman who wants to feel wanted, chosen, and lit up again.
The woman ready to be soft and receptive while staying fully in her power.
What Shifts for You
You feel magnetic in your own skin, and you notice who it starts drawing toward you.
Your desire comes back online, yours first, then the chemistry around you.
Receiving love, pleasure, and attention gets easier.
You come home to your body, your sensuality, your worth.
Miracles start to feel normal. You expect them, you let them in.
This is where you become her. The woman love moves toward.
See the results women are having with She Softens She Rises
What’s Included
In your She Softens She Rises experience this is what you get:
She Softens, She Rises Video Library that will journey you through the process of anchoring in the 4 phases of becoming this magnetic version of yourself with the 4 phases of Awake, Embody, Relate & Expand.
Monthly Q & A Group Telegram Coaching Day designed to help anchor in your shifts, and get direction from Avani on what’s needed to keep making the progress you desire. This will also be a live opportunity to get support if you’re feeling stuck.
Quarterly Live Immersions held over Zoom (~2-3 hours) with a variety of experiences and formats with Sound Activations, Embodiment work, Inquiry Exercises and Sisterhood support. Replays will be available.
The Soft Rich Method
AWAKEN - Self-Awareness, Truth & Emotional Freedom
The inner work of seeing what is actually going on behind the constant output & performance energy
Here we travel through the inner world with emotional healing transforming your identity, safety, self worth and moving from scarcity to abundance. We release what keeps you armored, disconnected and playing small.
EMBODY - Desire, Intuition & Feminine Essence
Coming out of the head and into connection with the body, pleasure, desire and inner knowing.
You will reconnect with your body, intuition, pleasure and desires, so your innate feminine essence and magnetism comes out.
RELATE - Love, Communication & Partnership
How you show up with other people, especially romantically.
We dive into topics of communication, vulnerability, dating & thriving partnership such that it will shift the way you approach relationships.
EXPAND - Purpose, Abundance & Mastery
Become the woman who creates, receives, leads and expands, shifting the traditional definition of success, to designing & living an aligned abundant life. Here we inquire into topics like your leadership, soul mission, money & abundance & becoming unshakable no matter what life throws at you.
This is how we anchor in a life of Purpose, Pleasure & a Love That Expands where you feel the love, chemistry, confidence, being chosen everyday
Clients about the Modules
I tolerated many things only because I didn't want things to break.
In 2012, my romantic life hit rock bottom. I called off my engagement just one month before the wedding. The heartbreak was devastating, but it became the doorway to my deepest transformation. I was determined to understand WHY love wasn't working for me.
Growing up, I watched my parents constantly fight. I learned that getting your needs met meant screaming, fighting, manipulating, or shutting down. Deep down, I carried the belief that something was wrong with me, that I wasn't worthy of love just as I was.
So I became the fiercely "independent girl." Strong on the outside, but underneath, afraid to speak my truth, afraid of being rejected or disappointed, and willing to tolerate things that didn't feel right just to keep a relationship.
I didn't realize that the very identity I thought was protecting me was keeping me from the love I deeply desired.
That heartbreak sent me on a healing journey. I went ALL IN on pleasure, masculine feminine dynamics, heart-led communication, dating strategy, inner child healing, and eventually intuitive healing and full body orgasm.
I went from a woman who didn't feel worthy of love to a woman who knows her value, owns her desires, holds her standards, and can fully RECEIVE love without losing herself.
Today, I've created a beautiful life of my own design, with a conscious husband who's still hands-down CRAZY about me 10 years later, our 2 wonderful boys, and the privilege of guiding other women to create their own Soft Rich life.
I discovered that a deeply fulfilling, long-term relationship doesn't come from controlling a man or making yourself smaller to keep him. It comes from becoming a woman who trusts herself so deeply that she can surrender, receive, and love without giving away her power.
And today, I fully own who I am as an intuitive, truth-speaking, sensual WOMAN, walking my bigger purpose of pioneering a new way for humanity.
What Clients say about Avani & her style of working
Britt
Avani supported me in owning my power and seeing how intuitive I am. That I CAN trust myself, that anything is possible! I am grateful that she would say “oh bullshit” to any limiting things my monkey mind would say 😆
D R
Avani cuts to the deeper layers immediately and the inquiry is so helpful. It helps us identify what lies underneath things - so incredibly valuable. Avani always asks us WHAT DO WE WANT from a situation/person/outcome and be bold to ASK FOR THAT with empowerment….don’t back down from that.
Your invitation:
Join She Softens She Rises as a Founding Member!
Special Founding Members rate: $55 USD per month, cancel any time
Founding pricing is open until 10/31/2026. Once it closes, the membership goes to $88/month.
Come home to your body, your pleasure, and the love that's ready to meet you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I pay in full?
No, I am currently only offering the Founding Member pricing at $55 USD per month.
When does it start?
Right away. You get instant access to the video library. Monthly Telegram coaching day is usually in the second Thursday of the month, and the Immersions are usually within the first 2 weeks of a new quarter (Jan, April, July & October). Dates are subject to change.
Do I need to be single?
No. This is for single women calling in love and for partnered women ready to feel desired and alive in their relationship again.
What if I can't make the live calls?
Every immersion is recorded and the replays stay in your library.
What's your refund policy?
I have a no-refund policy. I know what we do here works so I am confident you will get a lot of value. And if at any time you decide you want to stop, simply cancel the membership.
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Results Disclaimer: While we are dedicated to helping you call in love and abundance, please understand that the results shared on this page are not typical and are not a guarantee of your personal success. Your results will vary based on your individual effort, background, and unique circumstances. This program provides mindset and energetic tools; it does not provide financial, legal, or medical advice. We encourage you to consult with the appropriate professionals before making significant life or business decisions. By participating, you acknowledge that you are solely responsible for your progress and results. Click here for the Full Terms & Conditions
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